In This Chapter
^ Understanding depression
Identifying thinking and behaviour patterns that keep your depression going ^ Recognising and reducing ruminative thinking ^ Confronting and solving practical problems ^ Using activity as an antidepressant ^ Getting your sleeping pattern back on track
Statistics show that as many as one in two people are estimated to experience depression at some point in their lives. Luckily, the problem is well-recognised and treatable.
If for the past month, you’ve felt down, lacked energy, been pessimistic or hopeless about the future, and lost interest or enjoyment in doing things, then you may be suffering from depression. If you’ve also had difficulty concentrating, had a poor appetite, been waking early, and experienced a low mood, anxious thoughts or feelings of dread in the morning, then you’re even more likely to be diagnosed with depression. If you have three or more of these symptoms, your symptoms have been present for two weeks or more, and are intense enough to interrupt your usual day-to-day activities, then we recommend that you visit your physician and investigate the possibility that you are suffering from depression.
Antidepressant medication can help to alleviate some of your depressive symptoms, although not every person diagnosed with depression needs to take medication. Depending on the severity of your depression, a course of CBT treatment may be enough to help you get better. CBT for the treatment of depression is well researched and the results show that it produces good outcomes. CBT and antidepressant medication are often used in conjunction to treat depression. Ask your doctor or psychiatrist to explain your medication and any possible side effects.
This chapter provides you with a guide to assess yourself for possible depression and offers some classic CBT strategies for defeating depression.
Understanding the Nature of depression
The sort of depression we’re talking about in this chapter is different to feeling down or blue in response to a bad event. We’re talking about an illness now ranked as one of the most common reasons for people having to have time off work.
Specifically, depression has the following symptoms, usually lasting for at least two weeks:
Appetite variation, such as eating far less or more (‘comfort eating’) than usual
Sleep disturbance, including having difficulty sleeping, wanting to sleep too much, or experiencing early-morning wakefulness
Lack of concentration and poor memory
Irritability
Loss of libido
Loss of interest in activities previously enjoyed. Engaging in these activities no longer produces pleasure
Social isolation and withdrawal from others
Self-neglect with respect to feeding or grooming
Neglecting to take care of your living environment
Decreased motivation and activity levels, often described as a feeling of lethargy
Feelings of hopelessness about the future and thinking bleak thoughts, such as ‘What’s the point?’
Strong and enduring negative thoughts about yourself Feelings of guilt
Inability to experience feelings of love, often described as a flattening of emotions or feeling numb
Suicidal thoughts, such as feeling that you no longer care whether you live or die
Another common form of depression is Bipolar affective disorder, Formerly called ‘manic depression’. People who have bipolar disorder experience periods of severe depression alternating with periods of Hypomania (feelings of euphoria accompanied by impulsive and often risky behaviour). If you think that have this disorder we advise you to seek an assessment from a psychiatrist. A psychiatrist will be able to prescribe appropriate medication and can refer you to a CBT therapist.
The techniques covered in this chapter for overcoming Unipolar depression (depression that is not accompanied by periods of hypomania) are also useful for bipolar sufferers. Keeping up a consistent day-to-day level of activity is one of the main CBT strategies for managing bipolar affective disorder. You can use the techniques in the following sections, which cover improving the quality of your sleep, solving problems, scheduling your activities, and interrupting rumination, to stabilise your mood and help you to minimise or avoid excessive highs and lows.
Looking at What Fuels depression
Unfortunately, certain things that you do, in an attempt to alleviate your feelings of depression, may actually be making your symptoms worse. When people are depressed, they often make the mistake of doing what their mood dictates.
CBT helps depressed individuals learn to override their depressed mood and to do the Opposite Of what their depression makes them Feel like doing. Here are some of the main actions and thoughts that actually stoke depression:
Rumination: Getting hooked into a repetitive, cyclical process of negative thinking, repeatedly going over problems in the past, or asking yourself unanswerable questions. (We discuss rumination in detail in the next section.)
Negative thinking: In depression, your negative thoughts about yourself are often based on beliefs that you’re helpless and worthless. Thoughts about the world being an unsafe and undesirable place to live in are also a common feature of depression.
Inactivity: Feeling that you can’t be bothered to do day-to-day tasks, not participating in activities that previously you enjoyed, and staying in bed because you don’t believe you can face the day.
Social withdrawal: Avoiding seeing other people and not interacting with the people around you.
Procrastination: Avoiding specific tasks, such as paying bills, booking appointments, and making phone calls, because you think they’re too difficult or scary to confront.

Shame: Feeling ashamed about your depression, and telling yourself that other people would judge you harshly if they knew how much your effectiveness and productivity had decreased.
Guilt: Feeling guilty about your depression, and overestimating the degree to which your low mood causes inconvenience and suffering to your loved ones.
Hopelessness: Thinking that you’ll never feel better or that your situation will never improve.

Doing only what you feel like doing when you are depressed is likely to maintain or worsen your symptoms. Instead, try doing the opposite of what your depression directs you towards doing. For example, if you feel depressed and want to stay in bed all day avoiding phone calls and seeing friends, do the opposite. Try to make the colossal effort (and it can really feel colossal!) of getting up and dressed, answering the phone, and going out of the house to meet friends. Doing this limits you ruminating on your bad feelings and thoughts, and forces your attention onto external things, such as other people and your environment.
Most people find that they feel better for having done Something, Even if they do not experience enjoyment from social interaction like they did before they became depressed.
Depression typically dulls your ability to glean enjoyment from previously enjoyed activities. Be patient with yourself and trust that your feelings of enjoyment can return over time. In the first instance, it is enough to simply do the things that you have been avoiding Forthe sake of it. Doing something is better than doing nothing. Don’t put pressure on yourself to ‘have a good time’ at this early stage in your recovery.
Going. Round and Round in \lour Head: Ruminative Thinking
Rumination is an integral process in maintaining your depression. Most people with depression are likely to engage in some rumination, even if they’re not aware that they do.
Rumination Is a circular thought process in which you go over the same things again and again. Often, the focus is on how bad you feel or doubting that you can ever feel differently or better. Your rumination may also focus on trying to work out the root cause of your depression, or on the events that
Have contributed to you being depressed. You may ask yourself questions like the following, over and over again:
I Why is this happening to me?
I What could I have done to stop this happening?
I If only X, y Or Z Hadn’t happened, I’d be okay.
Depression makes people feel compelled to ruminate. In a sense, rumination is like a faulty attempt to solve problems. Rumination is compelling because your depressed mood tells you that you must try to get to the bottom of why you feel bad. But rumination simply doesn’t work: You end up trying to solve your depression by going over the same old ground and looking for answers inside the problem. You focus your attention on how depressed you feel, which leads to you feeling more depressed.
Fortunately, you can catch yourself going into a ruminative state by using the techniques we discuss in the following sections to interrupt the process.
Catching yourself in the act
Rumination is all-consuming. It will typically absorb you quite totally. You may look like you’re simply staring blankly into space, but in your head your thoughts are going ten to the dozen. The key is to knowing when you’re going Into Rumination, so you can take steps towards Getting out Of rumination.
Early warning signs of rumination taking hold include the following:
Getting stuck. You may be in the middle of doing something and find that you’ve stopped moving and are deep in thought. For example, you may be perching on the side of the bed for several minutes (or even much longer!) when actually you intended going for a shower.
Feeling low. Beware of times when your mood’s at its lowest ebb: This is when you’re most likely to engage in rumination. Most people ruminate at particular times of the day, more often than other times (although rumination can happen at any time).
Slowing down. You may be doing something and then start to move more slowly, like pausing in the aisle at the supermarket. You start to slow down because your concentration’s heading elsewhere.
Getting repetitive. The same old thoughts and questions drift into your head, time and time again. You get a familiar niggling feeling that these vague questions must be answered.
The content of your ruminations is not the problem – the process of rumination itself is. You don’t need to do anything with your thoughts other than disengage from them, as we explain in the following section.
Arresting ruminations before they arrest you
Several different tricks can help you stop the rumination process. Try some of the following:
Get busy. Perhaps one of the most effective strategies you can adopt is to make your body and mind busy with something outside yourself. If you’re vitally absorbed in an activity, you may find it harder to engage in rumination. These types of activities may include doing the housework with the radio on to hold your attention away from your internal thoughts, making a phone call, surfing the Internet, running errands, taking the dogs for a walk, and so on.
Work out. Hard aerobic exercise can exorcise those toxic thought processes. Be sure to exercise during the day or in the early morning, because exercising too near bedtime can disturb your sleep.
Get up and out. Rumination’s more difficult when you’re outside of your home or in the company of others. If you know that you’re most vulnerable to ruminating at certain hours of the day, make sure that you schedule activities for these times.
Let your thoughts go. Practice letting your negative thoughts pass by and simply observe them like pictures across a television screen. Don’t engage with your negative thoughts, judge them, or try to answer any questions – just accept their existence and let them slip by. (Check out Chapter 5 for more on this technique.)
Get good at redirecting your attention. You can strengthen your attention muscles and deliberately focus on less depressing things. Try using Task concentration training, A method of attending to external aspects of your environment, as it can successfully interrupt rumination. (See Chapter 5 for more on task concentration training.)
Be sceptical. Your depressed thoughts are a symptom of your depression, so try to take them with a sizable pinch of salt. You can resist the urge to ruminate about your depressed thoughts by deciding that they’re neither true nor important.


Keeping busy is a great technique for interrupting ruminative thinking. However, you can still end up ruminating while you’re engaged in an activity. Be aware of paying attention to whatever you’re doing. Be mindful of your actions when you’re ironing, cleaning, stringing beads, weeding the garden, or whatever.
Rumination can take hold during activities if you’re acting Mindlessly Rather than Mindfully (refer to Chapter 5 for more on this distinction).
Activating \lourse(( as an Antidepressant
Withdrawal and inactivity are the two most fundamental Maintaining factors In depression – they keep you in a vicious circle of isolation and low mood. For example, to counteract feelings of fatigue, you may be tempted (very tempted) to spend more time in bed. Unfortunately, remaining in bed means more inactivity and less energy.
If you feel ashamed of being ‘flat’, about having nothing to say, or feel guilty about burdening your friends, then keeping to yourself may seem sensible. The problem is that the less you do and the fewer people you see, the less pleasure and satisfaction you’ll get out of life, the less support you’ll receive, and the more your problems will pile up and weigh heavy on your mind.
Tackling inactivity
One of the best ways of starting to overcome depression is to gradually become more active, to steadily re-engage with other people, and to start tackling daily chores and other problems.
Use the activity schedule in Table 10-1 to start to plan each day with a realistic balance of activities and rest. Build up your activities gradually. If you’ve been in bed for days, getting out of the bedroom and sitting in a chair is a big move in the right direction. Remember: Take it step by step. Using the activity is incredibly simple; it merely involves allocating a specific time to do a specific activity. You can photocopy the blank schedule in Table 10-1 and fill it in.

Don’t overload your activity schedule, otherwise you may feel overwhelmed, sink back into inactivity, and probably berate yourself for being ineffective. It’s crucial to Realistically Plan a gradual increase in activities, starting from where you are Now, Not from where you think you Should Be.

Table 10-1 Activity Schedule
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Dealing With the here and noW: Soti/ing problems
As with other aspects of your daily or weekly activities, you need to be steady and systematic in your attempts to deal with practical problems, such as paying bills, writing letters, and completing other tasks that can pile up when you’re less active.
To get started, set aside a specific amount of time each day for dealing with neglected chores. Allocating your time can help things seem more manageable. Try the following problem-solving process:
1. Define your problem.
At the top of a sheet of paper, write down the problems you’re struggling with. For example, you might consider problems with the following:
• Relationships
• Isolation
• Interests and hobbies
• Employment and education
• Financial issues
• Legal issues
• Housing
• Health
Apply the following steps to each of your identified problems. You may need to do Steps 2 through 5 on each of your different problems.
2. Brainstorm solutions to your problem.
Write down all the possible solutions you can think of. Consider the following questions to help you generate some solutions:
• How did you deal with similar problems in the past?
• How have other people coped with similar problems?
• How do you imagine you’d tackle the problem if you weren’t feeling depressed?
• How do you think someone else would approach the problem?
• What resources (such as professionals and voluntary services) can you access for help with your problems?
3. Evaluate your solutions.
Review your ‘brainstormed’ list. Select some of your most realistic seeming solutions, and list the pros and cons of each.
4. Try out a solution.
On the basis of your evaluation of pros and cons, choose a solution to try out.
You can easily feel overwhelmed when your mood is low. Even the best of solutions can seem too difficult. To deal with this, break down your solution into a series of smaller, more manageable steps. For example, if you’re dealing with financial problems, your first step may be to ask friends for a recommended accountant, or to visit a financial consultant in your area. A second step may be to get your tax returns, proof of income, and so on, together. A third step may be selecting an accountant, and contacting them for information about their fees and the services they provide.
5. Review.
After trying out a solution, review how much it has helped you to resolve your problem. Consider whether you need to take further steps, to try another solution, or move on to tackling another problem.
Taking care of yourself and your environment
One of the hallmarks of depression is neglecting yourself and your living environment, which in turn leaves you feeling more depressed.
Instead of allowing your depression to be mirrored in your appearance and your home, make an extra effort to spruce things up. Your environment can have an astounding affect on your mood, both positive and negative.
Include bathing, laundry, tidying, and cleaning as part of your weekly activity schedule.
Getting a Good Night’s Steep
Good night, sleep tight, and don’t let the bedbugs bite!
Sleep disturbance, in one form or another, can often accompanydepression. Here are some tips you can use to improve your chances of greeting the sandman.
Get some exercise. We cannot overstate the benefits of taking regular exercise. Exercise is good for your mood and good for your sleeping. You can take vigorous exercise during the day or even first thing in the morning to get your Endorphins (‘feel good’ chemicals in your brain) charging. If you want to take some exercise in the evenings to help you wind down and de-stress, keep it gentle and not too close to your bedtime. A stroll, or an easy cycle ride, is an ideal choice.

Establish a schedule. Getting up at the same time everyday and avoiding daytime naps can help you get your sleeping back on track. Catnapping may be very tempting, but ultimately it interferes with your bedtime and can actually lower your mood. If you know that you get the urge for a siesta around the same time everyday, make plans to be out of the house at this time. Make yourself busy to keep yourself awake.
Avoid lying in bed awake. If you find dropping off to sleep difficult, don’t lie in bed tossing and turning. Get out of bed and do something – ideally, something boring like sorting laundry or reading a book on something you find dull, drinking something warm and low-in-caffeine, such as milk or cocoa – until you feel ready for sleep. Try to stay up until your eyelids start to feel heavy. The same applies, if you wake in the middle of the night and can’t get back to sleep easily. Don’t stay in bed for longer than ten minutes trying to get back to sleep. Get up and do something like the above ideas, then get back into bed only when you feel sleepy.
Watch your caffeine and stimulant intake. Avoid caffeinated drinks from mid – to late-afternoon. Caffeine can stay in your system for a long time. Remember that as well as tea and coffee, many soft drinks, chocolate (although not so much), and various energy drinks contain caffeine. Even some herbal teas contain stimulants, such as matte and guarana.
Establish a bedtime routine. Going through the same pre-bedtime procedures each night can help your mind realise that it’s getting near to shutdown time. Your routine may include having a warm bath, listening to a soothing radio programme, or having a warm, milky drink, or whatever works for you. Sometimes, having a very light, easily digestible snack before bedtime is a good idea to prevent sleep disturbance associated with going to bed hungry.
Setting realistic sleep expectations
During the day and while you try to fall asleep, you may well have thoughts like ‘I’ll never be able to get to sleep’, or ‘I’m in for another night of waking up every two hours’. Understandably, you may have these expectations if your sleep has been disturbed for some time, but such thinking is likely to perpetuate your sleep disturbance. Be aware of your worrying thoughts about sleep problems, such as ‘I’ll never be able to cope on such little sleep’, or ‘I’ve got to get some sleep tonight’. Trying to force yourself to go to sleep is rarely successful, and doing so contradicts the concept of Relaxation, Because you’re making an Effort To sleep.
Although it may sound like a tall order, try to take the attitude that you Can Cope with very little, or poor-quality, sleep. Also, answer back your sleep expectations by briefly telling yourself that you don’t know for definite how you may sleep tonight and that you’re just going to see how it goes.
Making your bedroom oh so cosy
Your bedroom should be used for sleeping and nothing else, apart from sex. When you’re trying to settle your sleep pattern, you should avoid even reading in bed. The idea is to help your fatigued mind build helpful, sleep-inducing associations with your boudoir. So, you definitely don’t want to be watching telly in bed, working on your laptop, talking on the phone, eating in bed, or any other activity, apart from slumbering or making sweet lurve.
Take care to make your bed and bedroom a relaxing, soothing place to be. Get yourself some very nice bed linen, remove clutter from the room, maybe put out some candles, hang some relaxing pictures on the walls, and make the temperature right for you. Smells can carry strong associations, so consider using a pleasant fabric softener on your linen or a special-purpose pillow spray. Just the smell of a soothing fabric softener on your linen can be enough for you to associate your bed with sleeping.
You can buy several natural essential oils from herbalists and health food shops that are thought to have relaxing properties. Try having an aromatherapy massage, or add essential oils to your bath, heat them in a burner to fragrance your room, or sprinkle them diluted on your bedclothes. You might want to try some of the following oils:
Chamomile Clary sage
Geranium and rose geranium Lavender (always popular)
Palma rosa (also said to be good for depression) Ylang ylang (also claimed to have an aphrodisiac effect)

Always get advice from a qualified herbalist about how to use essential oils correctly and safely. Most good quality health food shops may either have some qualified staff or be able to recommend an herbalist or aromatherapist. Undiluted essential oils are very strong, and you shouldn’t apply them directly
To your skin. If you’re taking medication, are pregnant, or have any allergies or medical conditions, you should always consult your doctor before using any aromatherapy or herbal remedies.
Managing Suicidal Thoughts
The most dangerous element of depression is that the feelings of hopelessness you can experience may become so strong that you try to take your own life. Don’t panic about having suicidal thoughts if you’re depressed. Such thoughts are very common and having them doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ll act on them.
If you’ve been feeling very hopeless about the future and have started to make plans about how to kill yourself, You must immediately seek medical assistance. Go to see your regular doctor as a first point of call, or attend Accident and Emergency (Casualty) if you feel at risk of suicide outside of surgery hours.

Famous and depressed
One of the most crucial aspects of recovering from depression is shedding any feelings of shame that you have about the problem. Something that can help with this is realising that No one Has a guarantee that they won’t get depressed. Depression has affected all kinds of people, from all kinds of walks of life, and from all kind of creeds, colours, and levels of intelligence.
Dozens of famous people have publicly reported or discussed their battles with depression during their lives. Celebrities are now’coming out’ about their suffering from depression or bipolar affective disorder (formerly known as manic depression). We hope that their actions can help to remove the stigma of mental health problems and enable more people to identify and seek help for depression.
Here are just a few famous types who’ve suffered from depression or bipolar affective disorder:
Buzz Aldrin (astronaut)
Ludwig van Beethoven (composer)
William Blake (poet)
Winston Churchill (British Prime Minister)
John Cleese (comedian, actor and writer)
Charles Dickens (writer)
Germaine Greer (writer and journalist)
Spike Milligan (comedian, actor, and writer)
Isaac Newton (physicist)
Mary Shelley (writer)
Vincent Van Gogh (artist)
Lewis Wolpert (embryologist and broadcaster)
Here is some advice on managing suicidal thoughts:
Recognise your feelings of hopelessness about the future as a Symptom Of depression, not a fact.
Remember that depression is a temporary state and there’s lots of ways to treat it. Decide to tackle your depression for, say, six weeks, as an experiment to see whether things can improve.
Tell a friend or family member how you’re feeling.
See a doctor and/or a therapist, or join a support group for further help and support if you’re finding it difficult to overcome your depression alone.
Try instigating the problem-solving process we outline in the previous section in this chapter, for any problem you currently see as hopeless.
5th By Rich Tennant
You’ll see how sometimes more than one option exists for writing an equation. Sometimes one way is better than another. Other times it makes no difference which format you use. And, unfortunately, you’ll see that some problems are just unsolvable — no method or means will ever answer the question.
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It’s not always convenient or easy to write your equation so that the variable is equal to the answer. Sometimes you have to write an equation that makes sense, and then figure out the answer to the question from the solution of the equation that you construct and solve.
The Problem: A landlord wants to have a total of $42,000 income from the monthly rents in his apartment complex. Right now, he gets $400 per month for each of his 100 apartments, giving him a total of $40,000. For every $20 he raises the rent, he loses three tenants who don’t want to pay the higher rent. He will get more income, to offset the vacant apartments, but he can’t raise the rent too high, or he’ll lose too much money. What should he charge per unit to get to that goal of $42,000?
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Use the top rule to determine the total cost of 100 mugs. C(100) = 75 + 0.90(100) = 75 + 90 = 165. Use the middle rule for 300 mugs. C(300) = 75 + 0.85(300) = 75 + 255 = 330. And the bottom rule works for finding the total cost of 1,000 mugs. C(1,000) = 75 + 0.80(1,000) = 75 + 800 = 875.
Number of students as girls plus boys: X + 2x – 10. Multiply the total by >2 and subtract 6. Set that expression equal to 202. Then simplify the equation and solve for X.
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Solving for Answers from Algebraic Solutions
Linear equations: Ax + B = C, With one possible solution
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